Nobody should be loved only for what they bring to the table. As a couple, you can love genuinely. Relationships should be give and take. If your spouse is only taking from you it is not a balanced relationship. If you notice that people flock around you only when you have something to offer without adding to you, I will recommend you review such relationship and have a chat with such if you can otherwise pull away.
As a couple never sit back expecting only your spouse pour into you. If you discover you are doing so much without receiving much in return, pray for God to open his or her spiritual eyes to understand what they are doing wrong. If you wish to have further chat on this why not book a session with me using the contact page.